Last week I took my little guy, Eli, fishing
at Silver Lake near Brighton. Even though the fishing wasn’t the greatest
there, I knew it would be a nice place to enjoy the sights while teaching my
boy the art of relaxation that involves casting a line out and waiting for a
fish to bite. He was pretty excited when I grabbed the poles out of the car.
Not because he knew we were going fishing, rather he expected an epic sword
fight was imminent. As a fellow childish male, I couldn’t help but oblige his
expectations, and an epic sword fight actually did take place right there in
the parking lot. I’m not sure who won, but based on the size of the smiles on
our faces, we both did.
His excitement over the poles, though, was nothing compared to the
joy he expressed as we walked toward the mirrored surface of Silver Lake. He laughed,
clapped his hands, and began bouncing on my shoulders, where he was perched. You
see, my 20-month-old boy loves water, or as he calls it, “wawa.” He’s fairly
indiscriminate about the type of water he tries to play in, whether it’s coming
from a sprinkler, in a pool or lake, or flowing down the gutter. Most of the
time it’s not a problem, but on the few hikes we’ve taken together I’ve had to
really watch him around rivers, ponds and lakes. He has a nasty habit of
running toward water when he sees it. I haven’t had a chance to properly fill
his head full of horror stories so that he’ll automatically be wary of entering
any body of water, but give me time. There are plenty of nights to tell him
these stories right before he goes to sleep.
Anyway, after enduring ten minutes of bouncing and the constant
chant of, “Wawa! Wawa! Wawa!” I chose a fishing spot where the bottom of the
lake was visible for at least a few feet before disappearing into the black
void where a sea serpent undoubtedly resides. That way, if Eli decided to give
in to his hydrophilic urges and happened to jump into the water, I could easily
retrieve him. I’m happy to say that I never had to worry about him during our
fishing trip. It appears that my son is developing a healthy sense of danger
and he stayed a couple of feet away from the edge of the lake the whole time.
He was content smacking the water and trees and rocks with his fishing pole. As
a reward for being so well-behaved around the water’s edge, I held Eli’s sippy
cup full of water over his head and shook it while he squealed with delight
over the sudden “rainstorm.”
With a hot summer well on its way this year, I’m sure Eli and I
will be spending a little bit of time around water. Even though he seems to
understand that not all water is safe to just jump into, I’ll still be on my
guard. Toddlers are about as unpredictable as a flash flood in Southern Utah.
It’s like small children are constantly playing a game of “red light, green light”
with their parents: turn your back and they try to get in as much trouble as
possible. No matter where I am, I listen well for a splash every time I turn my
back, because Eli is somehow able to find water anywhere. Enjoy your own watery
adventures this summer and keep those feet wet!
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